Are you Hooked, no no we are not discussing hookers! so stop your mind from travelling in all bizarre directions! the meaning in healing is we are attached to some people who are though close family, friend, relatives, may be unaware that they are draining our energy. Each of our chakra sends out energy cords, hooks, threads, that are attached to the other people. This is the reason why we are attracted to some one or repel talking to some other one. The first cord begins from birth between the mother and child.
Then as the child is born she/he may connect with other family , father, siblings, friends, relatives etc.
These energy cords help us to be connected, help us to love and understand and protect our near and dear ones. It is true when people say the baby gets hurt the mother feels the pain or know it even if she is not present. This is true for any close relationships and this may not always be related but the attachment energy cords connect, thus sometimes we feel a strong energy even in crowd when some one far away is staring at us. Or maybe some one with a strong healthy glowing aura enters we feel the whole environment charged with positivity, this happens with highly spiritual people.
Problems begin when the other starts taking undue advantage of personal chi of the other. relationships begin to suffer, one of them starts feeling energy drain and the other does not realize this truth and keeps benefiting from other persons chi. Most of the time from People close, mates, parents, friends, siblings, work office colleagues, boss, start taxing the other person, and many times making them feel guilty, responsible for the situations and thus taking undue advantage of their chi, energy. Pity, guilt, sacrificing, verbal and physical abuse, etc are negative emotions that need to be changed to positive healthy and caring relationships. The care must come from heart and not from compulsion, the hooks or cords when healthy help to have a mutually beneficial relationship and spreads love and forms strong bonding.
Some of the energy hooks may also be of past life carried into this life thus resulting in loss of trust, not having healthy relationships and many people suffer from commitment and thus have bad marriages, lose or hop jobs frequently, and lead a unstable life.
How will you recognize this, I am mentioning a few examples, but this may not totally be relevant and remember each case is different and there is a much wider energy perspective to healing.
1) always feel energy drain, tired even after having healthy diet.
2)Restless sleep, feeling compulsion to help/ care for the other person always.
3)Giving hundred percent time, efforts, energy to one person at cost of self care and health.
4) One sided relationships, where the other person does not reciprocate the same emotions, respect love and care.
5) In case of any sickness or being unable to perform tasks and care the other person gets irritated and angry, sometimes violent, this indicates the unhealthy energy in relationship where you are hooked and your personal chi is draining.
6) In or continuing the relationships without receiving the same energy, love, care, understanding from the other.
In case of external energy drainers you can back off and leave the space. The first step is always discussion and sharing, usually the other person does not realize this effect on you and are unawares of this energy sucking tendency they have. Then if this does not work, try to find ways mutually that help to heal the relationships. Even in cases of employers and work one can change jobs to a more healthy environment and supportive colleagues.
In family and personal relationships they have to be healed to continue leading a happy life ahead. In some cases it may be your energy lack also , maybe a weak root chakra or a weak solar plexus leading to feeling of strong dependency and attachment to the other, thus going out of the way in caring for the other.
How will you be protected yourself? 7 guidance tips.
1) Physical grounding, Exercising and eating healthy diet helps one to feel grounded.
2) meditation for some time, helps, especially in the north east sector, the feng shui area for personal development and chi energy.
3) learning to develop healthy relationships by conversing and sharing your personal needs.
4) Energy healing from a healer requires to untangle the stuck up energy cords, that are distorted and wrongly attached and to make way for a healthy energy flow between the two.
5) Reiki symbols when charged with positive intention of the healer helps one to develop acceptance, confidence and sharing, unblocking the energy stuck up in one or many chakras and thus allowing the individual to develop healthy relationships and live a stable well adjusted life.
6) positive affirmations and surrounding yourself with healing colors and symbols helps to adjust your personal chi to your surroundings.
7) proper placement of furniture and objects, feng shui, the element theory and following sacred shapes, geometry and the balancing the energy of the environment may help to heal your personal chi and keep positive energy active.
Reiki Energy healing is a pure energy, a Reiki Master is just a pure hollow channel who transmits the energy to others, Reiki energy will never go wrong or in more or less percentages and always heal and reach where it is required. The universe has everything in abundance, you just have to tap this.
God Bless and All the Best from Rizwana!
you can share your thoughts on energy cords, , experiences and energy draining relationships, I will try to help out as much as I can by email, and in case you need a healing artwork do let me know. Thank you!
Happy Feng Shuing from Rizwana! Dedicated since year 2010 towards spreading awareness of feng shuii through my Google blog with simple practical feng shui cure tips and my Reiki Feng shui healing paintings. Buy Reiki Symbol Feng shui paintings from my website Razarts.
